The love is buried deep in many hearts.
Hidden under his own love of childhood deficits,
covered by injuries and humiliation or buried by the fear of embarrassing themselves. The mind has taken the place of love and tried the unloving "Are not loved," or our behavior to justify the suffering. With an effort is an attempt to hide the feelings and suppress so distorted that they only come to light and can distort.
is almost the same time trying desperately to revive the feelings of pleasant experiences.
But in fact many hearts there is still discontent, sadness and loneliness, and above all a misunderstanding over the circumstances. Yet it is precisely these repressed feelings that make our lives difficult, because they push almost constantly expressed. It is our life in this "non-authentic" that makes us unhappy and lonely, because we no longer feel themselves.
We no longer live as we are because we do not accept what we feel.
But much of what we do leads to feelings and emotions. Whether we call the emerging feelings now accepted or not.
The fact that the unpleasant feelings are often suppressed, is like the attempt to keep the ball constantly below the water surface with declining strength or attention the repressed comes back up!
is so unnecessarily wasted energy to keeping the pressure constantly maintained, as otherwise the unwanted back to the surface fast. The devastating effect of this behavior is, however, that efforts to regulate our emotions in this way has an effect on our lives.
on our lives ... and our "being-so."
But much of what we do leads to feelings and emotions. Whether we call the emerging feelings now accepted or not.
The fact that the unpleasant feelings are often suppressed, is like the attempt to keep the ball constantly below the water surface with declining strength or attention the repressed comes back up!
is so unnecessarily wasted energy to keeping the pressure constantly maintained, as otherwise the unwanted back to the surface fast. The devastating effect of this behavior is, however, that efforts to regulate our emotions in this way has an effect on our lives.
on our lives ... and our "being-so."
Until we no longer are, who we are.
It is important to understand how important our feelings are and how sick we make our rational thinking. We need no justification for why we feel bad. And there is no guilt feelings are necessary precisely because we are not perfect people.
The only thing we need is our life where we give ourselves as we are and where we feel that what moves us.
real - authentic - full of emotion.
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picture of Sumba: frozen
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